How to express yourself  Know the details

How to express yourself Know the details

 

The secret to an authentic and confident life is to be able to express yourself completely. There are times when we fear how people around you may react to your emotions. And thus, to avoid and conflicts, as we age, we learn to suppress our emotions and opinions. Therefore, expressing yourself is an art that needs to be mastered, which will help you not always go with the flow and stand accountable for your thoughts and beliefs. The most crucial thing about expressing oneself is that it creates an outcome that is positive within yourself and the people around you.

The first and foremost step in expressing yourself is to understand and accept your emotions. You have to develop the ability to honestly view your emotions in certain situations- listen to yourself. This can be done by observing your feeling at a particular moment and realizing how you react in this situation. By practicing this, you will get an in-depth insight into your genuine emotions. Humans are good at hiding or building up emotions, which may lead to anxiety and depression. Thus, invest time in knowing your true feelings, lessen the risks of mental illnesses, decrease dissatisfaction with life, and improve quality of life.

After you have started to acknowledge your feelings, you have to become an excellent communicator to express yourself better. This can begin with expressing your thoughts and feelings in a journal. If you do not like opening and writing down with hand and think it is too much work, you can always use the notepad of your mobile phone or laptop. There are guided journal apps to help you navigate your moods and thoughts if it is challenging to write independently. Note down how you feel in an angry situation. Also, observe and note the way your body reacts to it. Focusing on how your body arousal varies with each emotion will strengthen your mind-body connection than pushing emotions aside.

Once you get easy on observing your emotions, they have to be expressed now safely among people. Work out plans that may express your emotions in a healthy way to the people around you. For instance, projecting anger through violence or shouting may not end up in the right way for both sides. Take accountability for your emotions while expressing by using I statements.

Lastly, there are plenty of other ways to express yourself apart from being verbally straightforward. You can dive into your hobbies and find several ways in which you can express your emotions and thoughts creatively. Physical expressions can include dancing or perhaps the way you dress yourself up. You can also express your thoughts and opinions in the form of writing stories or poems. Another excellent way of self-expression is through using different colours on paper or maybe just one!

In all, expressing oneself in an appropriate manner is difficult but not impossible, and following the above step can make you a better emotion regulator and expressor. To some, it may seem that it is not required, but it does help in the long term.

Writeen By:Zahabiya

 


 

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